Hope in self results in disillusion. Is it doable that that is why so many stroll round with severe addictions, and though they struggle every thing to interrupt their dangerous habits, they continue to be unsuccessful? Is it doable that that is why unhappiness and even suicide are on the rise? Is it doable that that is why so many kids and spouses are deserted? As a result of the seek for self-happiness takes priority? Is that this why so many people can by no means be really happy? As a result of materials pursuits can’t really convey happiness? Is it doable that concentrate on the “I” will solely trigger us ache, will solely trigger us to say “Ouch!”? “It is obvious what kind of life develops out of trying to get your own way all the time: repetitive, loveless, cheap sex; a stinking accumulation of mental and emotional garbage; frenzied and joyless grabs for happiness; trinket gods; magic-show religion; paranoid loneliness; cutthroat competition; all-consuming-yet-never-satisfied wants; a brutal temper; an impotence to love or be loved; divided homes and divided lives; small-minded and lopsided pursuits; the vicious habit of depersonalizing everyone into a rival; uncontrolled and uncontrollable addictions; ugly parodies of community. I could go on,” Galatians 5:19-21, The Message. So is there a treatment? You guess! And it is a easy one! As a substitute of taking a look at ourselves with the “eyes” of the “I”, let’s begin specializing in actual, unselfish love-the sort that that excludes the disenchanting “I”! “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself,'” Matthew 22:37-39, NIV. “Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends,” John 15:12-13, NIV. Jesus is our information to actual happiness! “I’m just as happy with little as with much, with much as with little. I’ve found the recipe for being happy whether full or hungry, hands full or hands empty. Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am,” Philippians 4:12-13, The Message. Happiness can solely be present in One, Jesus Christ. And the act of interplay with His beloved creation permits us to entry that happiness. Solely after we start to fall heads over heels in love with our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ will this get evened out. My motto has turn out to be: “He must increase, but I must decrease,” John 3:30, NKJV. Too many people settle for Jesus as our Savior, however too few of us settle for Him as our Lord and Grasp as effectively! No surprise we’re headed for therefore many catastrophes! So long as I attempt to fulfill my “I”, I’ll by no means be really happy! So long as I attempt to discover my very own freedom, I’ll by no means be really free! Actuality is: “So the last will be first, and the first will be last,” Matthew 20:16 NIV; and “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full,” John 10:10 NIV. The “I” interferes far too usually, and it’s the main reason for us lacking out on actual happiness! “I wonder…” Right here I’m going once more with my “I”! How do you battle the selfishness of “I”?